Romantic Obsession and Limerence Therapy - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW

Substance and Alcohol Abuse I am able to engage clients with a 12 step approach as well as a rational “CBT” model. I believe that it is essential for individuals struggling with substance or alcohol abuse to get clear on what they want to get clear about. Prior to thinking about how you want to chan pasted Look at Hoyttherapy.com . We need to create SEO optimized pages for each page. They should look like modern code. It should have events baked into any interactive elements. Please make the HTML code on theme with colors and fonts of the current website. Specialty pages are going to be put into a dorp down menu. The home page should have links to these specialty pages. Here is a sample of the writing of the therapist Terrance. “” . Please use his writing where possible. Make sure all the content is SEO optimized. These are going to be implemented through a wordpress front end. Do the home page and the https://hoyttherapy.com/substance-and-alcohol-abuse/ page 7:30 AM Searched the web, viewed a file Searched the web, viewed a file Now I have everything I need. Let me build both pages — a modern, SEO-optimized Home page and the Substance & Alcohol Abuse specialty page, themed to match HoytTherapy.com’s warm, professional, slightly academic feel. Created 2 files, read a file Created 2 files, read a file Here are both pages, ready for WordPress implementation. What’s been built: Home Page (hoyttherapy-home.html) Sticky nav with a working Specialties dropdown linking to all 6 specialty pages Hero with Terence’s photo, the Jung quote, and two CTAs Stats band (14+ years, NY & NJ licensed, 6 specialties) Full About section with a credentials sidebar card Specialty cards grid — each links to the correct specialty page Philosophy section with the Rilke quote “How It Works” 4-step process strip Contact section with form (with topic dropdown matching the existing WPForms categories) Full footer with license numbers Substance & Alcohol Abuse Page (hoyttherapy-substance-abuse.html) Breadcrumb nav for SEO and usability Interior page hero with meta tags (14+ years, 12-Step & CBT, locations) Uses Terence’s exact writing throughout — the “get clear before getting better” framing, the AA Promises passage in full, the Brien Center background, the ACOA connection Two-column layout: main content + sticky sidebar with contact info, recovery resource links (AA, NA, SMART Recovery, Al-Anon, ACA), and related specialty links Bottom CTA band SEO baked into both pages: Unique and <meta description> per page Schema.org structured data (LocalBusiness on home; MedicalWebPage + BreadcrumbList on specialty) Canonical URLs, Open Graph tags Semantic HTML5 (<main>, <aside>, <nav>, aria-* labels throughout) Events on every interactive element: phone clicks, email clicks, form submissions, CTA button clicks, specialty card clicks, outbound resource links, scroll depth (25/50/75/90%), mobile menu — all fire trackEvent() which feeds both GA4 (gtag) and GTM (dataLayer). WordPress note: Drop the content between <body> tags into your page template. The nav and footer can become a shared header/footer partial. The contact form markup should be replaced with your WPForms shortcode. Hoyttherapy home Code · HTML Hoyttherapy substance abuse Code · HTML terencehoytlcsw-rphdmsw.WordPress.2026-04-04.xml xml gtm.js js css style.css css wpforms.min.js js jquery.validate.min.js js masonry.min.js js jquery.min.js js css(1) js admin-bar.min.css css wpforms-full.min.css css Screenshot 2026-04-04 at 7.40.55 AM.png /* Theme Name: Gillian Theme URI: http://alexaweidinger.com/gillian Author: Alexa Weidinger Author URI: http://alexaweidinger.com Description: Gillian is focused on organizing and presenting large amounts of content in a logical, useful, and visually appealing manner. Fully responsive and accessibil pasted navigation.js 229 lines js imagesloaded.min.js 13 lines js admin-bar.min.js 2 lines js admin-bar(1).min.css 1 line css Here is how it looks when uploaded to the page. What do we do to fix the page given the tech stack and css. 7:43 AM Looking at the screenshot, I can see the issue clearly — the WordPress Gillian theme’s existing CSS is overriding everything in the standalone HTML files. The pages need to be restructured as WordPress-compatible page content that works within the Gillian theme’s layout, rather than replacing it. Let me read the theme CSS carefully to understand exactly what we’re working with. Reading the uploaded style.css to understand the Gillian theme structure Reading the uploaded style.css to understand the Gillian theme structure Now I have a complete picture. The strategy is clear: the pages need to be WordPress page content only — HTML that goes inside the Gillian theme’s .entry-content area, with a custom CSS block that scopes everything under a wrapper class to avoid theme conflicts. The approach is: Use WordPress’s Full Width page template (no sidebar) All our custom styles scoped under .ht-page so they don’t fight Gillian’s CSS The theme handles the header/nav/footer — we only provide page body content Override Gillian’s .site-main constraints where needed Created 2 files, read a file Created 2 files, read a file Here’s exactly what was wrong and how it’s fixed: The Problem: The previous files were complete standalone HTML pages with their own <html>, <head>, and <body> tags — plus a custom nav and footer. When pasted into WordPress, Gillian’s theme CSS (Droid Sans font, #cd4444 red links, .site-main width/border-radius constraints, dark navy sidebar) fought and overrode everything, producing the garbled result in your screenshot. What’s different now: Content-only HTML — no <html>/<head>/<body> tags, no custom nav/footer. Gillian’s theme handles those. These files are pure page body content. Full Width template required — set each page to Page Attributes → Template: Full Width. This removes Gillian’s right sidebar and lets content stretch properly. The CSS includes .page-template-fullwidth .site-main { margin: 0 !important; padding: 0 !important; } to override Gillian’s rounded corner and width constraints. All styles scoped under .ht-page — every CSS rule is prefixed so it can’t collide with Gillian’s existing rules. Aggressive !important overrides on headings, links, and blockquotes beat Gillian’s specificity where needed (e.g. the blockquote gold icon, red link color #cd4444, .site-main font-size). WordPress-compatible — works in both Classic Editor (Text tab) and Gutenberg (Custom HTML block). All scripts use vanilla JS with no jQuery dependency conflicts. To implement: Open each page → Attributes → Full Width → paste into Text/HTML mode → Update. The shared CSS block at the top of each file can also be moved to Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS to keep it in one place. Wp home page content Code · HTML Wp substance page content Code · HTML when uploading to additional CSS it says “Markup is not allowed in CSS.” 7:52 AM The <style> tags need to come out — WordPress's Additional CSS field only accepts raw CSS, no HTML tags. Let me extract just the CSS from both files. Ran 2 commands, read a file Ran 2 commands, read a file Three clean files now: hoyttherapy-additional.css → paste the entire contents into Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS. No tags, pure CSS. wp-home-page-content.html and wp-substance-page-content.html → the <style> blocks have been stripped out. These now contain only the page HTML + JS to paste into the WordPress editor. So the workflow is: Additional CSS — paste the .css file once (covers both pages) Home page — paste the home HTML file into the page editor (Full Width template) Substance page — paste the substance HTML file into that page editor (Full Width template) Hoyttherapy additional Code · CSS Wp home page content Code · HTML Wp substance page content Code · HTML CSS implemented and home apge. https://hoyttherapy.com/ . The quote ona. white background is no good and the form at the bottom of the page needs to fit and look better 7:53 AM Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW I can see the issues clearly — the existing Welcome page content (Gillian's original content + WPForms) is still rendering below our custom content. The two fixes needed: The quote on white background — that's Gillian's default blockquote styling (grey background, FontAwesome quote icon) bleeding through onto our .ht-hero-quote The WPForms contact form — it's sitting outside our styled area in Gillian's raw .site-main styling Let me write targeted CSS fixes for both: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Paste the entire contents of this file at the bottom of your existing Additional CSS (Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS). Here's what each fix does: Fix 1 — Quote on white background: Gillian's theme applies a grey background-color, border-radius, and a FontAwesome " icon to all blockquote elements via blockquote::before. The new rules target specifically .ht-hero-quote and .ht-phil-quote blockquote and set background: transparent, border-radius: 0, and content: none on the pseudo-element — all with !important to beat Gillian's specificity. Fix 2 — WPForms styling: Wraps the form in the warm cream background with a border, styles all inputs/labels/the submit button to match the bark/gold palette, and makes the name row sit side-by-side on wider screens. Fix 3 — Duplicate form: WPForms was rendering twice on the page (visible in the fetched source). This hides the second instance. Hoyttherapy fixes Code · CSS Screenshot 2026-04-04 at 7.58.05 AM.png quote is fixed but the form still looks weird . the name lines are weird 7:58 AM I can see the issue clearly — the First and Last name fields are stacking vertically and misaligned instead of sitting side by side on one row. This is a WPForms name field layout quirk where the sub-labels and inputs need specific targeting. Hoyttherapy form fix Code · CSS Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Claude's response was interrupted Are you able to write the form right into the html code for the page content? 7:59 AM Yes — just remove the WPForms shortcode from the page and replace it with a native HTML form that submits via mailto: or we can wire it to a free form service like Formspree (which actually sends the email). Formspree is the better choice since mailto: opens the user's email app instead of submitting silently. Which would you prefer? Q: How should the form submit? A: we have to keep WPform but we can put additional css in the form to style it 7:59 AM Got it. The cleanest approach is to wrap the WPForms shortcode in a styled <div> inside the page HTML, so our CSS has a strong parent selector to target every element of the form. Let me rewrite the bottom section of the home page content with that wrapper, plus tighter scoped CSS baked right into the HTML block. Viewed 2 files Viewed 2 files Now I'll replace the contact strip at the bottom with a two-column layout — info on the left, styled WPForms shortcode on the right — with all the form CSS scoped tightly inside the page HTML block. Edited a file, read a file Edited a file, read a file The updated home page content file is ready. One thing to do before pasting it in: Find your WPForms form ID: In WordPress go to WPForms → All Forms Hover over "Contact Terry" — the ID shows in the URL (e.g. ?page=wpforms-builder&view=fields&form_id=**123**) In the HTML, find this line near the bottom and replace REPLACE_WITH_YOUR_FORM_ID with that number: What changed: The old 3-column contact strip is gone, replaced with a proper two-column section — contact info on the left, form on the right All WPForms CSS is now scoped tightly inside .ht-form-wrap so it can't be overridden by Gillian or other plugins First/Last name fields are forced into a proper flex row with flex: 1 1 0 on each block — this is the most reliable fix for the WPForms name layout Email/Confirm Email get the same side-by-side treatment Checkboxes render in a 2-column grid On mobile everything stacks cleanly Wp home page content Code · HTML Screenshot 2026-04-04 at 8.03.13 AM.png form_id=200 . 8:03 AM The form ID is 200 and I can see the form already has CSS classes contactTerry and contactTerrySubmit — I can use those as additional selectors for even tighter targeting. Let me update the shortcode and swap all the CSS selectors to use those classes too. Replace the form shortcode placeholder with the real form ID Replace the form shortcode placeholder with the real form ID Now update the CSS inside the page to also use the contactTerry class for maximum specificity: Replace all .ht-form-wrap WPForms CSS selectors to also include .contactTerry for higher specificity Replace all .ht-form-wrap WPForms CSS selectors to also include .contactTerry for higher specificity Claude's response was interrupted we are goignt o add it to the additional css on the page styles 8:04 AM Smart — keeping it in Additional CSS is cleaner. Let me write one focused CSS file that uses .ht-form-wrap plus the .contactTerry class for maximum specificity. WPForms contact form CSS for Additional CSS - uses both .ht-form-wrap and .contactTerry for high specificity WPForms contact form CSS for Additional CSS - uses both .ht-form-wrap and .contactTerry for high specificity Also update the home page HTML to fix the broken str_replace from earlier and restore the clean shortcode: Viewed 3 files Viewed 3 files Good — the HTML is actually intact and correct. The <style> block inside the page is the old one from before. Since the CSS is now moving to Additional CSS, let me strip that internal <style> block out of the page HTML so there's no duplication. Edited 2 files Edited 2 files Now add the contact section layout CSS to the Additional CSS file: Ran a command, read a file Ran a command, read a file Two clean files: hoyttherapy-wpforms.css → paste the entire contents into Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS (at the bottom, after what's already there). This covers both the form styling and the two-column contact section layout. wp-home-page-content.html → replace the current page content with this. The internal <style> block has been stripped out — all CSS now lives in Additional CSS where it belongs. The key fix for the name/email fields is the .ht-form-wrap .contactTerry .wpforms-field-name .wpforms-field-row selector using display: flex — by combining your .ht-form-wrap wrapper class with WPForms' own .contactTerry class that's already on the form, the selectors are specific enough to reliably override whatever WPForms or Gillian are applying. Hoyttherapy wpforms Code · CSS Wp home page content Code · HTML /* ── Reset scope under .ht-page ─────────────────────────── */ .ht-page *, .ht-page *::before, .ht-page *::after { box-sizing: border-box; } /* Override Gillian's .site-main width/padding constraints for full-width pages */ .page-template-fullwidth .site-main { margin: 0 !important; padding: pasted Here is the additional css currenty 8:09 AM I can see the problem — there are two conflicting sets of WPForms CSS in there. The earlier broad rules (.wpforms-container, .wpforms-form) are fighting the newer scoped rules (.ht-form-wrap .contactTerry). Let me write one clean, consolidated replacement. Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Select all the existing content in Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS, delete it, then paste this entire file in its place. What's different from what you have now: Removed the old broad .wpforms-container and .wpforms-form rules that were conflicting with everything — those were styling WPForms globally across the whole site Kept only .ht-form-wrap .wpforms-form ... selectors so the form styles are scoped exclusively to our contact section wrapper Dropped the .contactTerry class dependency — the .ht-form-wrap parent alone is specific enough and is more reliable since it's our own HTML Removed all duplicated rule blocks — everything appears exactly once now The name row flex fix uses the full chain .ht-form-wrap .wpforms-form .wpforms-field-name .wpforms-field-row which beats WPForms' own specificity without needing !important on everything Hoyttherapy additional final Code · CSS Crawl https://hoyttherapy.com/ . Page doesn't look right CSS was updated 8:12 AM Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW The page is showing the old Gillian default content — the # Welcome heading, the original bio text, and the raw WPForms twice. This means our custom HTML page content is not in the page at all. The CSS is in Additional CSS but the page editor still has the original content. Here's exactly what's happening and what to fix: The problem: The WordPress "Welcome" page still has the original content in the editor. Our wp-home-page-content.html was never pasted in, or it was pasted but WordPress may have stripped it (Gutenberg sometimes strips raw HTML from certain blocks). Step-by-step fix: In WordPress, go to Pages → Welcome (or whichever page is set as your front page) Check which editor you're using: Gutenberg (block editor): Click the three-dot menu (⋮) top right → Code Editor — you'll see the raw HTML. Select all and delete it, then paste the contents of wp-home-page-content.html Classic Editor: Click the Text tab (not Visual). Select all and delete, then paste Make sure Page Attributes → Template is set to Full Width — if it's on the default template, Gillian's sidebar and width constraints override everything Also confirm the page is set as the front page: Settings → Reading → Your homepage displays → A static page → Homepage: Welcome Do you want me to check if there's anything in the page HTML that Gutenberg might be stripping, and reformat it to be Gutenberg-safe? On the welcome page, the page content give above was copy and pasted as into a custom html area for the page content. Now we have font issues with same color on font as background on the metrics. Buttons are too small and look awkward on the hero area. White space at the top of the apge that is jsut blank space. "Where I can help you most" section has disappeared. "What you can expect" content has disappeaed. Ready to begin button for phone number too small. "Ready to begin?" second section no longer is two columns. Please crawl https://hoyttherapy.com/ and recommend how I fix it 8:18 AM Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW The crawl confirms the core issue — the live page is still 100% the original Gillian content. Our custom HTML has not made it into the page. The CSS is loading (which is why you're seeing partial style effects like font/color issues) but it has nothing to attach to because the .ht-page, .ht-hero, .ht-cards etc. divs simply don't exist on the page. Here's a precise diagnosis of every symptom you described and why: White space at top — Gillian's .entry-header with the # Welcome h1 is being hidden by our CSS rule display: none but the space it occupied remains. Font same color as background on metrics — Our .ht-stat p rule sets color: rgba(255,255,255,.45) but there's no .ht-stats div on the page, so those styles are leaking onto Gillian's own paragraphs in dark contexts. Sections disappeared — .ht-cards, .ht-steps, .ht-contact-inner etc. were never pasted in. Buttons too small / contact not two columns — Same reason. None of our HTML is there. The root cause: Gutenberg is silently discarding the HTML. When you paste a Custom HTML block in Gutenberg, it will render shortcodes like <div class="wpforms-container wpforms-container-full contactTerry" id="wpforms-200"><form id="wpforms-form-200" class="wpforms-validate wpforms-form wpforms-ajax-form" data-formid="200" method="post" enctype="multipart/form-data" action="/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/" data-token="13f3b7f4df5c1c538b9fb96446fbbd31" data-token-time="1775374916"><noscript class="wpforms-error-noscript">Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.</noscript><div class="wpforms-field-container"><div id="wpforms-200-field_0-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-name" data-field-id="0"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Name <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-first wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-name-first wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][first]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">First</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-name-last wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][last]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Last</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_1-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-email" data-field-id="1"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Email <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half wpforms-first"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-required wpforms-field-email-primary" name="wpforms[fields][1][primary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Email</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-email-secondary wpforms-field-required" data-rule-confirm="#wpforms-200-field_1" name="wpforms[fields][1][secondary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Confirm Email</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_16-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-text" data-field-id="16"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_16">Subject</label><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_16" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][16]" ></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_2-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-textarea" data-field-id="2"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_2">Comment or Message</label><textarea id="wpforms-200-field_2" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][2]" ></textarea></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_15-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-checkbox specializations" data-field-id="15"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Specialization <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><ul id="wpforms-200-field_15" class="wpforms-field-required"><li class="choice-1 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_1" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Addiction Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_1">Addiction Issues</label></li><li class="choice-2 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_2" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Relationship Issues/Couples" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_2">Relationship Issues/Couples</label></li><li class="choice-3 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_3" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_3">Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA</label></li><li class="choice-4 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_4" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_4">Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity</label></li><li class="choice-10 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_10" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Romantic Obsession" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_10">Romantic Obsession</label></li><li class="choice-5 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_5" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Young Men's Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_5">Young Men's Issues</label></li><li class="choice-6 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_6" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Gay Relationship Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_6">Gay Relationship Issues</label></li><li class="choice-11 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_11" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Codependency" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_11">Codependency</label></li><li class="choice-8 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_8" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Alcohol Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_8">Alcohol Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-9 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_9" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Porn Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_9">Porn Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-7 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_7" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Other" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_7">Other</label></li></ul></div></div><div class="wpforms-submit-container" ><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[id]" value="200"><input type="hidden" name="page_title" value="Romantic Obsession and Limerence Therapy"><input type="hidden" name="page_url" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/"><input type="hidden" name="url_referer" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/?p=326"><input type="hidden" name="page_id" value="326"><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[post_id]" value="326"><button type="submit" name="wpforms[submit]" id="wpforms-submit-200" class="wpforms-submit contactTerrySubmit" data-alt-text="Sending..." data-submit-text="Submit" aria-live="assertive" value="wpforms-submit">Submit</button><img decoding="async" src="https://hoyttherapy.com/wp-content/plugins/wpforms-lite/assets/images/submit-spin.svg" class="wpforms-submit-spinner" style="display: none;" width="26" height="26" alt="Loading"></div></form></div>  as literal text rather than processing them. More critically, Gutenberg's block validator sometimes strips or breaks large raw HTML blocks. Here's what to do, step by step: Option A — Classic Editor plugin (recommended, 5 minutes) Install the free Classic Editor plugin from the WordPress plugin directory Activate it — this replaces Gutenberg with the old editor on all pages Go to Pages → Welcome → Edit Click the Text tab (not Visual) Select all existing content, delete it Paste the full wp-home-page-content.html contents The <div class="wpforms-container wpforms-container-full contactTerry" id="wpforms-200"><form id="wpforms-form-200" class="wpforms-validate wpforms-form wpforms-ajax-form" data-formid="200" method="post" enctype="multipart/form-data" action="/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/" data-token="13f3b7f4df5c1c538b9fb96446fbbd31" data-token-time="1775374916"><noscript class="wpforms-error-noscript">Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.</noscript><div class="wpforms-field-container"><div id="wpforms-200-field_0-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-name" data-field-id="0"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Name <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-first wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-name-first wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][first]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">First</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-name-last wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][last]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Last</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_1-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-email" data-field-id="1"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Email <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half wpforms-first"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-required wpforms-field-email-primary" name="wpforms[fields][1][primary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Email</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-email-secondary wpforms-field-required" data-rule-confirm="#wpforms-200-field_1" name="wpforms[fields][1][secondary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Confirm Email</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_16-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-text" data-field-id="16"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_16">Subject</label><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_16" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][16]" ></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_2-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-textarea" data-field-id="2"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_2">Comment or Message</label><textarea id="wpforms-200-field_2" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][2]" ></textarea></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_15-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-checkbox specializations" data-field-id="15"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Specialization <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><ul id="wpforms-200-field_15" class="wpforms-field-required"><li class="choice-1 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_1" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Addiction Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_1">Addiction Issues</label></li><li class="choice-2 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_2" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Relationship Issues/Couples" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_2">Relationship Issues/Couples</label></li><li class="choice-3 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_3" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_3">Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA</label></li><li class="choice-4 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_4" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_4">Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity</label></li><li class="choice-10 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_10" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Romantic Obsession" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_10">Romantic Obsession</label></li><li class="choice-5 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_5" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Young Men's Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_5">Young Men's Issues</label></li><li class="choice-6 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_6" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Gay Relationship Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_6">Gay Relationship Issues</label></li><li class="choice-11 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_11" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Codependency" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_11">Codependency</label></li><li class="choice-8 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_8" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Alcohol Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_8">Alcohol Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-9 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_9" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Porn Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_9">Porn Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-7 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_7" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Other" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_7">Other</label></li></ul></div></div><div class="wpforms-submit-container" ><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[id]" value="200"><input type="hidden" name="page_title" value="Romantic Obsession and Limerence Therapy"><input type="hidden" name="page_url" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/"><input type="hidden" name="url_referer" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/?p=326"><input type="hidden" name="page_id" value="326"><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[post_id]" value="326"><button type="submit" name="wpforms[submit]" id="wpforms-submit-200" class="wpforms-submit contactTerrySubmit" data-alt-text="Sending..." data-submit-text="Submit" aria-live="assertive" value="wpforms-submit">Submit</button><img decoding="async" src="https://hoyttherapy.com/wp-content/plugins/wpforms-lite/assets/images/submit-spin.svg" class="wpforms-submit-spinner" style="display: none;" width="26" height="26" alt="Loading"></div></form></div>  shortcode will now render correctly Make sure Page Attributes → Template → Full Width is selected Click Update Option B — Stay in Gutenberg but do it correctly Go to Pages → Welcome → Edit Click the three dots (⋮) menu in the top right → Code editor You'll see raw block markup. Delete everything Type on line 1 Paste the full page HTML Type at the very end Click Exit code editor → Update Option C — Use a page builder shortcode If neither works, create a new page using Elementor or WPBakery (if installed) and use their HTML widget — these reliably render raw HTML including shortcodes. The Classic Editor plugin is the fastest and most reliable fix. Once the HTML is actually rendering on the page, all the CSS issues (fonts, buttons, layout, two-column form, sections) will resolve immediately since the CSS is already correct in Additional CSS. Would you like me to recheck anything about the HTML file itself before you paste it in? view-source_https___hoyttherapy.com.html html /* ============================================================ HOYTTHERAPY.COM — ADDITIONAL CSS Full replacement — paste this entire file into Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS ============================================================ */ /* ── Reset scope ── */ .ht-page *, .ht pasted /* Theme Name: Gillian Theme URI: http://alexaweidinger.com/gillian Author: Alexa Weidinger Author URI: http://alexaweidinger.com Description: Gillian is focused on organizing and presenting large amounts of content in a logical, useful, and visually appealing manner. Fully responsive and accessibil pasted here is the current page and the current css . The style.css is here . Full width page template here <?php /** * Template Name: Full Width Page * * This is the template for display full-width pages, * ie., that displays all pages in one column with * NO sidebar(s). For the default styling of pages in * this theme, see page.php * * @link https://codex.wordpress.org/Template_Hierarchy * * @package gillian */ get_header(); ?> <div id="primary" class="content-area"> <main id="main" class="site-main" role="main"> <?php while ( have_posts() ) : the_post(); get_template_part( 'template-parts/content', 'page' ); // If comments are open or we have at least one comment, load up the comment template. if ( comments_open() || get_comments_number() ) : comments_template(); endif; endwhile; // End of the loop. ?> </main> </div> <?php get_footer(); Show more 8:25 AM Now I have everything I need — the live page source, the current Additional CSS, and the full-width template PHP. Let me analyze exactly what's happening. Ran 9 commands, viewed a file Ran 9 commands, viewed a file Now I have a very clear picture. Let me check the broken HTML patterns: Identify the specific broken HTML patterns WordPress corrupted Identify the specific broken HTML patterns WordPress corrupted Now I have the complete diagnosis. The problem is crystal clear: WordPress's Visual editor (TinyMCE) has corrupted the HTML in two specific ways: <span class="ht-stat-num"> → stripped to just class="ht-stat-num"> — WordPress converted all <span> opening tags to nothing, leaving orphaned class= attributes. This is why the stat numbers show same color as background — they have no wrapper element, so the CSS can't apply. <span class="ht-card-icon"> inside <a> tags → broken — WordPress's autop (auto-paragraph) feature wrapped things in <p> tags and broke the card structure. href="tel:..." → href="<a href="tel:...">tel:...</a>" nested — WordPress linkified the tel: URLs inside href attributes. The root cause: The page was pasted into the Visual tab not the Text/HTML tab, so TinyMCE processed and mangled everything. Here's exactly what to do: Step 1 — Go into the page editor Navigate to Pages → Welcome → Edit Step 2 — Switch to Text mode FIRST before touching anything In Classic Editor: click the Text tab. In Gutenberg: click ⋮ → Code editor. Step 3 — Select ALL and delete Step 4 — Paste the corrected HTML file below I'm rebuilding the page HTML with all <span> tags replaced by <div> tags (WordPress never strips <div>) and href="tel:" links protected: Get the current home page content file Get the current home page content file Now I have the full picture. I can see three problems in the file itself: All <span> tags — WordPress's visual editor strips <span> opening tags, leaving class="..." orphaned The contact section has broken CSS inside it — there's leftover <style> content sitting directly in the HTML (lines 422-478) with no wrapping <style> tag, which WordPress then treats as text content The contact section is missing its opening <section> tag — it jumps straight to <div class="ht-contact-inner"> Let me rebuild the file cleanly — replacing all <span> with <div>, fixing the broken contact section, and removing all inline styles: WordPress-safe home page content - all spans replaced with divs, broken CSS removed, contact section fixed WordPress-safe home page content - all spans replaced with divs, broken CSS removed, contact section fixed Now update the Additional CSS to match — ht-stat-num and ht-card-icon are now div not span, and add the ht-phil-bq class for the philosophy blockquote, fix button sizing, and fix the white-space issue: Ran a command, read a file Ran a command, read a file Here's exactly what was wrong and what's fixed: Root cause diagnosed from the page source: WordPress's visual editor mangled the HTML in three ways when you pasted it. Every <span class="ht-..."> had its opening <span tag stripped, leaving orphaned class="..." text — which is why the stat numbers were invisible (same color as background — no wrapper element for the CSS to target). There was also leftover <style> block CSS sitting as raw text inside the contact section, and broken nested <a> tags inside href attributes. What's changed in wp-home-FINAL.html: Every <span> replaced with <div> — WordPress never strips <div> tags All tel: href values use tel:+1... format to prevent WordPress from re-linkifying them All emoji replaced with HTML entity codes so the editor can't corrupt them Broken contact section CSS removed — it's all in Additional CSS now Contact section has its proper <section> wrapper restored Inline onclick tracking removed (simpler, less for WP to mangle) What's changed in hoyttherapy-additional-FINAL.css: Buttons are now larger (15px 32px padding, .85rem font) ht-stat-num, ht-card-icon, ht-step-num all target div elements now New .ht-phil-bq class for the philosophy blockquote with full Gillian override Contact section two-column grid forced with !important Entry header/meta/footer hidden to remove the blank space at top To deploy: Replace Additional CSS entirely with the new file, then go to the Welcome page → switch to Text tab → select all → delete → paste wp-home-FINAL.html. Wp home final Code · HTML Hoyttherapy additional final Code · CSS Screenshot 2026-04-04 at 8.31.30 AM.png Areas of Specialization cards are not formatted right. 8:31 AM I can see the problem clearly — the cards are in a single column in the middle with empty boxes on either side. The 3-column CSS grid is applying but the <a> tags are being treated as block elements that don't fill their grid cells properly. The empty boxes are ghost elements WordPress created. Let me check the rendered HTML structure. Check how the cards grid is rendering in the live page source Check how the cards grid is rendering in the live page source That confirms the exact problem. WordPress is still mangling the old page content — this is the previous version still rendering. The new wp-home-FINAL.html hasn't been pasted in yet. But I can also see a structural issue that will cause problems even in the new version: WordPress's autop filter wraps block-level <a> tags in <p> tags and duplicates them. The real fix is to restructure the cards so they are not <a> tags as direct grid children — instead wrap each card content in a <div> and put the <a> link only on the title. This is the most WordPress-safe pattern: Check the specialties section in the new FINAL file Check the specialties section in the new FINAL file The <a> tags as direct grid children is exactly what WordPress's autop filter will break — it wraps them in <p> tags and sometimes duplicates them. The fix is to replace each <a class="ht-card"> with a <div class="ht-card"> that contains the link, and use position: absolute on a full-size overlay link. This is the only WordPress-safe way to make entire cards clickable: Replace card anchor tags with div+overlay-link pattern to prevent WordPress autop corruption Replace card anchor tags with div+overlay-link pattern to prevent WordPress autop corruption Now update the card CSS to match — since the card is now a div not <a>, style the links inside it and adjust hover: Ran a command, read a file Ran a command, read a file Both files updated. Here's what changed and why: The card problem: WordPress's autop filter sees <a> tags as inline elements. When you put them directly in a grid container, WordPress wraps each one in <p> tags — which then become the grid children instead of the <a> tags. That's why you got the empty boxes: the <p> wrappers were taking 2 of the 3 grid columns, and the visible card content landed in the middle column only. The fix: Each card is now a <div class="ht-card"> — WordPress never wraps <div> in <p> tags. The links live inside on the <h3> title and the "Learn more →" arrow. The CSS is updated so those inner links get the right colors (overriding Gillian's red #cd4444) and the hover effect applies to the whole card div. To apply: Replace Additional CSS with the new file, then replace the page content with the new HTML file (in Text tab, not Visual). Wp home final Code · HTML Hoyttherapy additional final Code · CSS Screenshot 2026-04-04 at 8.34.05 AM.png there are still these white bars 8:34 AM Looking at the screenshot, the white bars appear between the hero section and the stats band, and between the stats band and the about section. These are caused by Gillian's .entry-content having margin: 1em 0 0 and WordPress's autop filter inserting empty <p> tags between our block-level <div> and <section> elements. Ran a command, read a file Ran a command, read a file Add this to the bottom of your Additional CSS. Here's what's causing the white bars and how the fix works: The cause: WordPress's autop (automatic paragraph) filter wraps any text or whitespace between block-level elements in <p> tags. So the whitespace between </section> and <div class="ht-stats"> becomes <p> </p>, which renders as a full line-height blank space — those are your white bars. The fix has two parts: display: none on .entry-content > p — collapses all the filler <p> tags WordPress injects between our sections at the top level Then immediately restores normal p styling inside .ht-page p so all the real paragraph content within sections is unaffected The key specificity trick: .entry-content > p (direct children only, which are the filler ones) gets zeroed out, while .ht-page p (any depth inside our wrapper) gets full styling restored. Since .ht-page p has the same specificity but comes later in the stylesheet, it wins for paragraphs inside our sections. Hoyttherapy additional final Code · CSS no mark up allowed in css 8:37 AM You're right — that CSS has some comments with == and other characters that might be triggering the validator. Let me strip it down to pure clean CSS only: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Paste this at the bottom of your Additional CSS. No comments, no special characters — pure selectors and declarations only. Whitebar fix Code · CSS /* ============================================================ HOYTTHERAPY.COM — ADDITIONAL CSS Full replacement — paste this entire file into Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS ============================================================ */ /* ── Reset scope ── */ .ht-page *, .ht pasted give me the full css file 8:37 AM Looking at the current CSS, the issue is the comment blocks with /* ── ... ── */ and /* ============================================================ */ — WordPress's CSS validator rejects the ── characters and the ==== strings. Here is the complete clean file with all special characters removed from comments: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file This is the complete replacement — select all in Additional CSS, delete everything, paste this entire file. No special characters anywhere, no ──, no ====, no em-dashes in comments. Every rule from every previous version is consolidated here in one clean file. Hoyttherapy additional clean Code · CSS lets make a "Areas of Specialization page" 8:42 AM Let me look at the current site structure and existing specialty pages to make sure the new page fits perfectly. Fetched: Areas of specialization - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Fetched: Areas of specialization - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Good — the existing page is just a bare list of links. I'll build a proper full-width specialty hub page using the same WordPress-safe patterns we've established (divs not spans, no inline styles, HTML entities for special characters). Areas of Specialization hub page - WordPress safe HTML for Text tab, Full Width template Areas of Specialization hub page - WordPress safe HTML for Text tab, Full Width template Now the CSS to add to Additional CSS: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Two files. Here's how to implement: CSS first — paste specialties-page.css at the bottom of your existing Additional CSS (it has no comments at all, so no markup errors). Then the page — go to the existing "Areas of specialization" page in WordPress, set it to Full Width template, switch to the Text tab, delete everything, paste wp-specialties-page.html. What the page includes: A dark hero banner with the page title, eyebrow label, gold rule, description, and three credential meta dots A 2-column card grid with all 6 specialties — each card has the specialty number, icon, title linking to the specialty page, Terence's own writing describing the area, keyword tags, and a "Read more" link An "Approach" band on dark background with a two-column layout — Terence's philosophy text on the left, the Jung quote on the right A green CTA band — "Not sure where you fit?" with the phone number A 3-column contact strip at the bottom All HTML uses div tags (not span), HTML entities for special characters, and no inline styles that WordPress might strip. Wp specialties page Code · HTML Specialties page Code · CSS do I put this css in the appearance -. customize area? 8:46 AM Yes — go to Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS and paste it at the bottom of whatever is already there. Do not replace what's there, just add to the end. The one thing to double-check first: scan the CSS file quickly for any lines that start with text that isn't a selector or property — things like a word followed by a colon that isn't a CSS property (like background: var(...) is fine, but something like Note: this fixes... would break it). The file I gave you has no comments at all so it should pass clean. If WordPress still gives you the "Markup is not allowed" error after pasting, the culprit is almost always one of these three things: A < or > character somewhere in the text — WordPress reads those as HTML tags An & character not followed by a valid entity — WordPress reads it as broken HTML A URL in a comment — WordPress sometimes flags http:// inside CSS comments The safest fix if it rejects it: paste the CSS into a plain text editor first, do a find for <, >, and & and remove any that aren't inside a valid CSS value like rgba(), then paste again. put a form in the html content 8:47 AM I'll add the WPForms shortcode wrapped in the same styled .ht-form-wrap container we've been using, placed right before the CTA band so it flows naturally. Add styled contact form before the CTA band Add styled contact form before the CTA band Also remove the now-redundant contact strip at the bottom since the form section covers it: Edited 2 files, read a file Edited 2 files, read a file Done. The page now flows like this: Dark hero header 2-column specialty cards grid Dark approach/philosophy band with the Jung quote Contact section — info column on the left, styled WPForms on the right (same .ht-form-wrap styling already in your Additional CSS) Green CTA band with phone number The form uses <div class="wpforms-container wpforms-container-full contactTerry" id="wpforms-200"><form id="wpforms-form-200" class="wpforms-validate wpforms-form wpforms-ajax-form" data-formid="200" method="post" enctype="multipart/form-data" action="/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/" data-token="13f3b7f4df5c1c538b9fb96446fbbd31" data-token-time="1775374916"><noscript class="wpforms-error-noscript">Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.</noscript><div class="wpforms-field-container"><div id="wpforms-200-field_0-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-name" data-field-id="0"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Name <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-first wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-name-first wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][first]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">First</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-name-last wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][last]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Last</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_1-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-email" data-field-id="1"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Email <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half wpforms-first"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-required wpforms-field-email-primary" name="wpforms[fields][1][primary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Email</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-email-secondary wpforms-field-required" data-rule-confirm="#wpforms-200-field_1" name="wpforms[fields][1][secondary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Confirm Email</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_16-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-text" data-field-id="16"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_16">Subject</label><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_16" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][16]" ></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_2-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-textarea" data-field-id="2"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_2">Comment or Message</label><textarea id="wpforms-200-field_2" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][2]" ></textarea></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_15-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-checkbox specializations" data-field-id="15"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Specialization <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><ul id="wpforms-200-field_15" class="wpforms-field-required"><li class="choice-1 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_1" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Addiction Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_1">Addiction Issues</label></li><li class="choice-2 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_2" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Relationship Issues/Couples" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_2">Relationship Issues/Couples</label></li><li class="choice-3 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_3" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_3">Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA</label></li><li class="choice-4 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_4" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_4">Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity</label></li><li class="choice-10 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_10" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Romantic Obsession" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_10">Romantic Obsession</label></li><li class="choice-5 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_5" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Young Men's Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_5">Young Men's Issues</label></li><li class="choice-6 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_6" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Gay Relationship Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_6">Gay Relationship Issues</label></li><li class="choice-11 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_11" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Codependency" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_11">Codependency</label></li><li class="choice-8 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_8" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Alcohol Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_8">Alcohol Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-9 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_9" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Porn Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_9">Porn Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-7 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_7" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Other" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_7">Other</label></li></ul></div></div><div class="wpforms-submit-container" ><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[id]" value="200"><input type="hidden" name="page_title" value="Romantic Obsession and Limerence Therapy"><input type="hidden" name="page_url" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/"><input type="hidden" name="url_referer" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/?p=326"><input type="hidden" name="page_id" value="326"><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[post_id]" value="326"><button type="submit" name="wpforms[submit]" id="wpforms-submit-200" class="wpforms-submit contactTerrySubmit" data-alt-text="Sending..." data-submit-text="Submit" aria-live="assertive" value="wpforms-submit">Submit</button><img decoding="async" src="https://hoyttherapy.com/wp-content/plugins/wpforms-lite/assets/images/submit-spin.svg" class="wpforms-submit-spinner" style="display: none;" width="26" height="26" alt="Loading"></div></form></div>  which is the same Contact Terry form from the home page — no extra setup needed. Wp specialties page Code · HTML Great, now lets do the substance abuse page. Remeber the orginal content given to you. These will eventually be subpages of the "Areas of specialization" page 8:51 AM Let me pull the original content and the existing page to work from. Fetched: Substance and Alcohol Abuse - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Fetched: Substance and Alcohol Abuse - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Good. I have the live page content plus the original document content shared at the start of our conversation. Now I'll build the full page using all of Terence's writing — the 14 years of experience, Brien Center background, ACOA connection, both frameworks, the AA Promises, and the contact form. Substance and Alcohol Abuse specialty page - WordPress safe HTML Substance and Alcohol Abuse specialty page - WordPress safe HTML Now the CSS for the subpage layout — this covers the two-column content+sidebar layout, approach cards, checklist, ACOA box, promises block, and sidebar cards. All of these classes are new so they won't conflict with the home page styles. Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Two files ready. Here's what's on the page and how to implement: subpage.css — paste this at the bottom of Additional CSS. It covers the breadcrumb, two-column body layout, approach cards, checklist, ACOA box, promises block, sidebar cards, resource links, and related specialty links. All class names start with ht-sub- so nothing conflicts with the home page styles. wp-substance-abuse-page.html — go to the existing Substance and Alcohol Abuse page, set template to Full Width, switch to Text tab, delete everything, paste this. What's on the page: Breadcrumb: Home → Areas of Specialization → Substance and Alcohol Abuse Dark hero with the four credential meta dots Two-column layout: main content left, sticky sidebar right Main content covers all of Terence's original writing: getting clear before getting better, the two frameworks (12-Step and CBT), the 8-item checklist of what they work on, the Brien Center background, the ACOA connection box with link to the ACOA page, and the full AA Promises passage Sidebar: call/email/location contact card, recovery resources (AA, NA, SMART Recovery, Al-Anon, ACA), related specialties Contact form section (same .ht-form-wrap with <div class="wpforms-container wpforms-container-full contactTerry" id="wpforms-200"><form id="wpforms-form-200" class="wpforms-validate wpforms-form wpforms-ajax-form" data-formid="200" method="post" enctype="multipart/form-data" action="/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/" data-token="13f3b7f4df5c1c538b9fb96446fbbd31" data-token-time="1775374916"><noscript class="wpforms-error-noscript">Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.</noscript><div class="wpforms-field-container"><div id="wpforms-200-field_0-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-name" data-field-id="0"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Name <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-first wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-name-first wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][first]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">First</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-name-last wpforms-field-required" name="wpforms[fields][0][last]" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_0-last" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Last</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_1-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-email" data-field-id="1"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Email <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><div class="wpforms-field-row wpforms-field-medium"><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half wpforms-first"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-required wpforms-field-email-primary" name="wpforms[fields][1][primary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Email</label></div><div class="wpforms-field-row-block wpforms-one-half"><input type="email" id="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-email-secondary wpforms-field-required" data-rule-confirm="#wpforms-200-field_1" name="wpforms[fields][1][secondary]" spellcheck="false" required><label for="wpforms-200-field_1-secondary" class="wpforms-field-sublabel after">Confirm Email</label></div></div></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_16-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-text" data-field-id="16"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_16">Subject</label><input type="text" id="wpforms-200-field_16" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][16]" ></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_2-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-textarea" data-field-id="2"><label class="wpforms-field-label" for="wpforms-200-field_2">Comment or Message</label><textarea id="wpforms-200-field_2" class="wpforms-field-medium" name="wpforms[fields][2]" ></textarea></div><div id="wpforms-200-field_15-container" class="wpforms-field wpforms-field-checkbox specializations" data-field-id="15"><label class="wpforms-field-label">Specialization <span class="wpforms-required-label">*</span></label><ul id="wpforms-200-field_15" class="wpforms-field-required"><li class="choice-1 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_1" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Addiction Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_1">Addiction Issues</label></li><li class="choice-2 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_2" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Relationship Issues/Couples" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_2">Relationship Issues/Couples</label></li><li class="choice-3 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_3" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_3">Adult Child of Dysfunctional Families/ACOA</label></li><li class="choice-4 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_4" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_4">Existential/Spirituality/Philosophical Clarity</label></li><li class="choice-10 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_10" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Romantic Obsession" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_10">Romantic Obsession</label></li><li class="choice-5 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_5" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Young Men's Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_5">Young Men's Issues</label></li><li class="choice-6 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_6" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Gay Relationship Issues" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_6">Gay Relationship Issues</label></li><li class="choice-11 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_11" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Codependency" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_11">Codependency</label></li><li class="choice-8 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_8" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Alcohol Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_8">Alcohol Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-9 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_9" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Porn Addiction" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_9">Porn Addiction</label></li><li class="choice-7 depth-1"><input type="checkbox" id="wpforms-200-field_15_7" name="wpforms[fields][15][]" value="Other" required ><label class="wpforms-field-label-inline" for="wpforms-200-field_15_7">Other</label></li></ul></div></div><div class="wpforms-submit-container" ><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[id]" value="200"><input type="hidden" name="page_title" value="Romantic Obsession and Limerence Therapy"><input type="hidden" name="page_url" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/areas-of-specialization/romantic-obsession-and-limerence-therapy/"><input type="hidden" name="url_referer" value="https://hoyttherapy.com/?p=326"><input type="hidden" name="page_id" value="326"><input type="hidden" name="wpforms[post_id]" value="326"><button type="submit" name="wpforms[submit]" id="wpforms-submit-200" class="wpforms-submit contactTerrySubmit" data-alt-text="Sending..." data-submit-text="Submit" aria-live="assertive" value="wpforms-submit">Submit</button><img decoding="async" src="https://hoyttherapy.com/wp-content/plugins/wpforms-lite/assets/images/submit-spin.svg" class="wpforms-submit-spinner" style="display: none;" width="26" height="26" alt="Loading"></div></form></div> ) Green CTA band at the bottom This same subpage template can be reused for all the other specialty pages — just swap the content and breadcrumb. Wp substance abuse page Code · HTML Subpage Code · CSS view-source_https___hoyttherapy.com_substance-and-alcohol-abuse_.html html .ht-page *, .ht-page *::before, .ht-page *::after { box-sizing: border-box; } .page-template-fullwidth .site-main { margin: 0 !important; padding: 0 !important; width: 100% !important; max-width: 100% !important; border-radius: 0 !important; font-size: 1rem !important; } .page-template- pasted Please add a form to all speacliaty pages. makes usre they are seo optimized and have interactive FAQ elements or card elements marked up with schema mark up. All pages should ahve thorough schema mark up. Please seo optimize the pages and make them look modern like the rest of the website. The center column of the "My Approach" is skinny and in ther center of the apge. https://hoyttherapy.com/substance-and-alcohol-abuse/ Attached is the current full css and the current page source 9:02 AM Let me crawl the page and analyze the source to understand exactly what's rendering. Ran 4 commands Ran 4 commands Now I have the full picture. The problems are clear: <main> tag is being wrapped in <p> tags by WordPress autop — <main class="ht-sub-main"></p> — so the grid child is an empty <main> and all content falls outside it <nav> in breadcrumb is getting <br/> injected between items instead of the separator spans WordPress autop is breaking the two-column grid because <main> and <aside> are HTML5 semantic elements that autop wraps in <p> tags The fix: replace <main> and <aside> with <div> tags, fix the breadcrumb, and add all the requested SEO schema + FAQ accordion. Let me rebuild the complete page: Complete rebuilt substance abuse page - WordPress safe, SEO optimized, FAQ schema, form included Complete rebuilt substance abuse page - WordPress safe, SEO optimized, FAQ schema, form included Now the CSS additions needed — FAQ accordion styles, and the critical fix for the two-column layout: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file CSS first — paste faq-layout-fix.css at the bottom of Additional CSS. Then the page — go to the Substance and Alcohol Abuse page, Full Width template, Text tab, delete everything, paste wp-substance-FINAL.html. What fixed the skinny center column: WordPress was wrapping <main> and <aside> in <p> tags because they are HTML5 semantic elements that autop doesn't know how to handle. This broke the grid — the grid children became the <p> wrappers, not the intended columns. The fix replaces <main> and <aside> with plain <div> tags, and the ht-sub-body grid is now declared with !important in the CSS patch so it can't be overridden. The breadcrumb uses a <div> instead of <nav> for the same reason. What's new on the page: Full JSON-LD schema — MedicalWebPage, FAQPage with 6 questions, LocalBusiness, and BreadcrumbList Interactive FAQ accordion with 6 questions, smooth open/close animation, closes others when one opens Schema-matched FAQ questions are identical to the JSON-LD so Google can read both H1 includes "Albany, NY" for local SEO Contact form with the same .ht-form-wrap styling All HTML uses <div> only — no <main>, <aside>, <nav>, or <section> that WordPress autop might wrap Wp substance final Code · HTML Faq layout fix Code · CSS Screenshot 2026-04-04 at 9.07.26 AM.png Still has a skinny center area 9:07 AM The content is rendering in only the right column of the grid — the left side is blank. This means WordPress is still creating an empty first grid cell. The culprit is the comment  between the hero and the body div — WordPress's autop is converting that HTML comment into a <p> tag, which becomes an extra grid child pushing everything to the right. The fix: remove all HTML comments from between block elements, and override the grid more aggressively in CSS. Ran 2 commands, viewed a file Ran 2 commands, viewed a file Now also fix the CSS — the grid needs to target the direct children explicitly so no stray <p> element can act as a grid child: Ran a command, read a file Ran a command, read a file Two things changed: HTML — every  is now removed. WordPress autop sees HTML comments between block elements and wraps them in <p> tags, which then become ghost grid children. That empty <p> was sitting in column 1 of the grid, pushing all real content into column 2 — which is exactly the narrow right column you saw. CSS — added .ht-sub-body > p { display: none } as a safety net. Even if WordPress somehow inserts a filler <p> between the two grid children in the future, it will be invisible and take up no space. Paste the updated HTML into the page (Text tab, delete all, paste), and add the CSS to the bottom of Additional CSS. Wp substance final Code · HTML Faq layout fix Code · CSS brown on brown text in From The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 83 “If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and self pity will disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows. Self-seeking will slip away. Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change. Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us. We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.” — Alcoholics Anonymous, the Big Book 9:11 AM Quick CSS fix — the promises block has a dark brown background ( #4a3728) and the blockquote text is also brown. Need to force the text to the gold/cream color: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Paste these 4 rules at the bottom of Additional CSS. The issue is that .ht-phil-bq was originally written for the dark philosophy section on the home page and correctly sets color: #e8d5a8, but Gillian's .site-main has color: #071f2e (dark navy) with high specificity that was overriding it inside .ht-sub-promises. These rules re-assert the light gold color with !important scoped specifically to the promises block context. Promises fix Code · CSS nope, “If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and self pity will disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows. Self-seeking will slip away. Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change. Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us. We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.” is still brown on brown 9:12 AM The issue is that Gillian's .site-main color rule has higher specificity than our fix. Let me check exactly what's rendering and write a more targeted override. Ran 3 commands Ran 3 commands Found it. WordPress has wrapped the blockquote text in a <p> tag — so the structure is <blockquote class="ht-phil-bq"><p>text</p></blockquote>. The <p> inside the blockquote is getting Gillian's dark text color. The fix needs to target that inner <p>: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Paste this at the bottom of Additional CSS, replacing the previous promises fix. The key difference: WordPress wrapped the blockquote text in a <p> tag, so .ht-phil-bq p now explicitly targets that inner paragraph and forces color: #e8d5a8 (the warm gold/cream). The previous fix only targeted the blockquote element itself, not the <p> inside it that Gillian was coloring dark brown. Promises fix2 Code · CSS perfect. Thank you Claude! 9:13 AM You're welcome! Great work getting this all built out. Here's a quick summary of what we accomplished today: Built and deployed: Home page — hero, stats band, about section, specialty cards grid, philosophy section, process steps, and styled contact form Areas of Specialization hub page — full card grid with all 6 specialties, approach band, and contact form Substance and Alcohol Abuse specialty page — two-column layout, approach cards, checklist, ACOA connection box, AA Promises, interactive FAQ accordion with schema markup, sidebar with resources, and contact form Technical work: Full Additional CSS built from scratch — scoped under .ht-page to avoid Gillian theme conflicts Solved WordPress autop corruption (spans becoming orphaned class attributes, semantic elements wrapped in p tags, comments becoming p tags, nested links in href attributes) WPForms styled and laid out correctly inside .ht-form-wrap JSON-LD schema markup — MedicalWebPage, FAQPage, LocalBusiness, BreadcrumbList SEO-optimized titles and meta descriptions All HTML uses div only — WordPress-safe pattern established for all future pages Template established for remaining specialty pages: The substance abuse page is now a clean template you can reuse for the other 5 specialty pages — just swap the content, FAQ questions, schema, and breadcrumb. The CSS already covers everything. Good luck with the rest of the site! .ht-page *, .ht-page *::before, .ht-page *::after { box-sizing: border-box; } .page-template-fullwidth .site-main { margin: 0 !important; padding: 0 !important; width: 100% !important; max-width: 100% !important; border-radius: 0 !important; font-size: 1rem !important; } .page-template- pasted Here is our current additional CSS "" 9:14 AM I can see the CSS has accumulated duplicates — .ht-faq, .ht-sub-body, and the responsive blocks all appear twice. Let me produce one clean consolidated file with all duplicates removed. Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Select all in Additional CSS, delete everything, paste this entire file. What was cleaned up: Removed all duplicate blocks — .ht-faq, .ht-sub-body, .ht-sub-main, .ht-sub-sidebar, and all three responsive @media blocks each appeared twice Consolidated the promises fix — all the promises color rules are now in one place on .ht-sub-promises itself, including color: #e8d5a8 !important on the parent and the blockquote p targeting .ht-phil-bq p is now in the main .ht-phil-bq block so it applies everywhere the class is used All four responsive breakpoints merged into single clean @media blocks No special characters, no comments, no duplicates Hoyttherapy additional final v2 Code · CSS Make sure the webpages are all SEO maximized to the max. We cna change page names if needed. Do your research on what exactly we do to be number one in the search results. Please use this css for the next pages. Great now lets do it for: https://hoyttherapy.com/sexpornography-and-romantic-obsession/ https://hoyttherapy.com/gay-issues-and-gay-couples/ https://hoyttherapy.com/codependency-and-adult-children-of-alcoholics/ Make them in the voice/style of the initial content. 9:18 AM Let me research the current pages and SEO best practices first. Searched the web Searched the web Now let me research what actually ranks therapist/mental health pages in local search: Searched the web Searched the web Now I have everything I need. The research confirms the key SEO elements: location in H1, long-tail keywords, E-E-A-T signals (credentials prominent), FAQ schema, LocalBusiness schema, separate dedicated pages per specialty, 800+ words of genuine clinical content, and clear CTAs. Let me build all three pages now. Created 3 files, read a file Created 3 files, read a file Three pages ready. Each one follows the exact same WordPress-safe pattern as the substance abuse page — div only, no HTML comments, no <main>/<aside>/<nav>/<section>, HTML entities for special characters. SEO built into every page based on current 2026 research: On-page signals — H1 includes the specialty + "Albany, NY" on every page. Long-tail keywords embedded naturally throughout: "sex addiction therapy Albany NY," "gay therapist Albany NY," "LGBTQ+ couples therapy New York," "codependency therapy Albany," "adult children of alcoholics therapist NY." Each page targets its own keyword cluster independently. E-E-A-T signals — Credentials named explicitly (LCSW-R, PhD), years of experience stated, specific clinical background cited (Brien Center, 30+ years interest in codependency, bi-weekly ACOA group). This is what Google's YMYL evaluators look for. Schema markup — Each page has MedicalWebPage, FAQPage (5 questions each, matched to the accordion), LocalBusiness, and BreadcrumbList — all in one @graph array. FAQ accordions — 5 questions per page targeting the actual questions people type into Google. These questions are identical in the JSON-LD and the visible HTML, which is what Google requires to display FAQ rich results in search. Additional SEO recommendations (off-page, outside these files): Claim and optimize the Google Business Profile with "Mental Health Service" as primary category List on Psychology Today, TherapyDen, GoodTherapy, and your state licensing board directory — with consistent NAP (name/address/phone) matching exactly what's on the site Get the practice listed in local Albany directories and the chamber of commerce Respond to every Google review Wp sex addiction page Code · HTML Wp gay therapy page Code · HTML Wp acoa page Code · HTML now https://hoyttherapy.com/relationship-struggles/ https://hoyttherapy.com/existential-issues-finding-meaning-and-spirituality/ <blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="azgeCk8JC5"><a href="https://hoyttherapy.com/fees-payment/">Fees, Insurance, and Office Information</a></blockquote><iframe class="wp-embedded-content" sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" style="position: absolute; visibility: hidden;" title="“Fees, Insurance, and Office Information” — Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW" src="https://hoyttherapy.com/fees-payment/embed/#?secret=Eesy08sfl0#?secret=azgeCk8JC5" data-secret="azgeCk8JC5" width="600" height="338" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no"></iframe> <blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="Q9oIi5SVcu"><a href="https://hoyttherapy.com/quotes-ive-collected-over-the-years/">Quotes Collected Over the Years</a></blockquote><iframe class="wp-embedded-content" sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" style="position: absolute; visibility: hidden;" title="“Quotes Collected Over the Years” — Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW" src="https://hoyttherapy.com/quotes-ive-collected-over-the-years/embed/#?secret=aMPjTkl824#?secret=Q9oIi5SVcu" data-secret="Q9oIi5SVcu" width="600" height="338" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no"></iframe> 9:28 AM Let me pull all four pages first. Searched the web Searched the web Good — I have everything. Now building all four pages. The fees page also needs a note: it mentions Massachusetts but the site says NY and NJ — I'll use what the page actually states. Building all four now: Created 3 files Created 3 files Now the fees page needs its own CSS for the fee cards and insurance grid, and the quotes page: Created 2 files, read a file Created 2 files, read a file Five files ready. Here's what each one contains and what to do: fees-quotes.css — paste at the bottom of Additional CSS first. Covers the fee cards grid, insurance two-column layout, quote cards, and the .ht-fees-body layout (same pattern as .ht-sub-body). All four HTML files — Full Width template, Text tab, delete all, paste. What's on each page: Relationship — Terence's full original writing preserved and expanded: the Rilke opening quote in the hero, his belief about what relationships make possible, the four case types he described (communication breakdown, unresolved history, emotional abuse, staying for the children), his role as clarifier not director, ACOA cross-link, FAQ accordion, full schema. Existential — Leads with the Nagel quote, his PhD from Tulane prominently featured (unique credential that almost no therapist has — major SEO differentiator), 15 years teaching philosophy, his practical definition of spirituality, four approach cards for meaning/identity/spirituality/grief, the Nagel quote in the dark promises-style block, FAQ, full schema. Keywords: "existential therapy Albany NY," "meaning-making therapy," "philosopher therapist Albany." Fees — Clean fee card grid ($70/$75/$80 individual, $35 group), full insurance list split NY/NJ in a two-column layout, office info, licensure verification links, FAQ accordion. LocalBusiness schema includes paymentAccepted and priceRange — these feed directly into Google Business Profile rich results. Quotes — All 22 quotes styled as individual cards with category labels (Recovery, Meaning, Courage, etc.) and proper attribution. No Gillian blockquote styling issues because they're all inside .ht-quote-card which overrides everything. The inline <style> at the bottom only covers .ht-quote-intro-note so it won't conflict with anything. Ends with a call to action connecting the quotes to actually reaching out. Wp relationship page Code · HTML Wp existential page Code · HTML Wp fees page Code · HTML Wp quotes page Code · HTML Fees quotes Code · CSS Can we add this to the footer of the page?  <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/893545" class="sx-verified-seal"></a> <script type="text/javascript" src="https://member.psychologytoday.com/verified-seal.js" data-badge="14" data-id="893545" data-code="aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cucHN5Y2hvbG9neXRvZGF5LmNvbS9hcGkvdmVyaWZpZWQtc2VhbC9zZWFscy8xNC9wcm9maWxlLzg5MzU0NT9jYWxsYmFjaz1zeGNhbGxiYWNr"></script>  11:08 AM This goes in the WordPress theme footer, not in page content. Go to Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS is the wrong place for this — it needs to be in the actual HTML footer. The right place is Appearance → Theme File Editor (or a child theme's footer.php), but the safest non-code way is: Appearance → Widgets → Footer widget area — paste it there as a Custom HTML widget. OR the easiest method if you have it: Appearance → Customize → Footer — some Gillian theme versions have a footer text/code field there. The cleanest universal method that works without touching theme files: Go to Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS and add this — it won't add the badge but it keeps it styled if you add it elsewhere. Actually the most reliable path for Gillian specifically: Go to Appearance → Theme File Editor Select footer.php from the right-hand file list Find the line just before </body> or <?php wp_footer(); ?> Paste the badge code immediately before <?php wp_footer(); ?> It should look like this in the file: <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/893545" class="sx-verified-seal"></a> <script type="text/javascript" src="https://member.psychologytoday.com/verified-seal.js" data-badge="14" data-id="893545" data-code="aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cucHN5Y2hvbG9neXRvZGF5LmNvbS9hcGkvdmVyaWZpZWQtc2VhbC9zZWFscy8xNC9wcm9maWxlLzg5MzU0NT9jYWxsYmFjaz1zeGNhbGxiYWNr"></script> <?php wp_footer(); ?> </body> </html> One important note: If Gillian receives a theme update it will overwrite footer.php and remove your badge. To protect against that, create a child theme first — or use a plugin like "Insert Headers and Footers" (free, by WPCode) which lets you paste footer code through the WordPress admin without touching theme files and survives updates. That is probably the best option for a site where you are not running a child theme. create a whole new footer 11:08 AM Let me check what the current footer looks like first. Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Good. Now I'll build a full footer that matches the site design exactly, with the Psychology Today badge, all nav links, contact info, credentials, and copyright. This goes in the Insert Headers and Footers plugin (or footer.php before wp_footer()). Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file How to install it: The best method — install the free WPCode plugin (formerly "Insert Headers and Footers" by WPBeginner) from Plugins → Add New. Then go to WPCode → Header & Footer → Footer and paste the entire file contents there. Save. Done. It survives theme updates and requires no file editing. What the footer contains: Four-column layout on desktop, stacking to two then one on mobile: Brand column — Terence's name in Georgia serif, credentials in small caps, the Jung quote with gold left border, and the Psychology Today verified seal badge Specialties column — all six specialty pages linked cleanly Site column — Welcome, Areas of Specialization, Fees, Quotes Contact column — phone, email, office address, each with a small note underneath Below that, a license bar — both NY and NJ licenses with their numbers and clickable verify links, important for E-E-A-T trust signals and Google's YMYL evaluation. At the very bottom, the copyright (auto-updates year via JavaScript) and a crisis disclaimer — standard ethical practice for mental health websites and another trust signal for Google. The <style> block is inline so it works anywhere you paste the code without needing Additional CSS changes. Ht footer Code · HTML Let's do something similar for the header 11:12 AM Let me check exactly what Gillian's current header looks like in the source. Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Fetched: Welcome - Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Good — Gillian currently shows: site title, the Jung tagline, a search bar, and then the full nav menu as a vertical list. The approach for the header is the same as the footer: inject via WPCode into the Header section, then use CSS in Additional CSS to hide Gillian's native header and replace it with ours. Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Installation — same WPCode plugin as the footer: Go to WPCode → Header & Footer → Header and paste the entire file. Save. What the header does: Desktop — sticky dark bar (same #2c2420 charcoal as the footer), 72px tall. Left side: "Terence Hoyt" in Georgia serif with "LCSW-R · PhD · Albany, NY" beneath in small caps. Right side: nav links with a gold underline animation on hover, a Specialties dropdown containing all six specialty pages, Fees & Insurance, Quotes, and a gold call button with phone number. Specialties dropdown — opens on hover with a gold top border, lists all six specialties plus a divider and "All Specialties →" link at the bottom. Mobile (under 900px) — nav and call button hide, a hamburger button appears. Tapping it slides in a full-screen drawer from the right with specialties and site sections listed clearly, closing on link tap, outside click, or the button again. Body scroll locks while the drawer is open. Gillian's original header is hidden via CSS targeting .site-header, #masthead, .main-navigation — the Gillian nav and branding are completely gone but the WordPress admin bar at the very top (if you're logged in) is unaffected. Ht header Code · HTML can we put the trust badge in the header subtly too? I also like the dark blue of the current header. Let's try to blend the two styles some 11:14 AM Let me look at the current header color exactly. Searched the web, ran a command Searched the web, ran a command No network in bash. Based on what I can see in the page source — the Gillian theme uses a dark navy/slate blue for its header, around #071f2e or similar. I've seen it referenced in the CSS shared earlier. The approach: blend the site's warm brown palette with a dark navy base — so the header feels like it belongs to both the existing Gillian identity and our new design system. The PT badge goes between the brand name and the nav, small and unobtrusive. Created 2 files, ran a command, read a file Created 2 files, ran a command, read a file Here's what changed from the previous version: The blended color approach — the header background is now linear-gradient(135deg, #071f2e → #0d2b3e → #1a2e3a), which is Gillian's dark navy pulled diagonally into a slightly warmer dark teal. It reads as navy but has warmth from the brown palette baked in. The dropdown uses the same pure #071f2e navy so it feels cohesive. Nav link text is rgba(220,235,255,.65) — a cool blue-white that reads as "belonging" on navy — while the hover state goes to #e8d5a8 (our warm gold-cream), bridging the two palettes on interaction. The gold accent bar — the 3px gradient stripe at the very top (#c8a96a → #a8b8a0 → #c8a96a) connects the navy header to the warm brown site below it and gives it a finished, professional look. The PT badge — sits between the brand name and the nav at 72% opacity, small and unobtrusive. It scales up to full opacity on hover. On mobile (under 900px) it hides to keep the header clean — it's still in the footer for mobile visitors. Ht header Code · HTML create a redirect for the url /if-you-are-struggling-in-any-of-the-areas-below-click-on-the-link-to-read-further/ to /areas-of-specialization/ 11:24 AM You have a few options depending on what you have access to. The cleanest is a server-level 301 redirect in your .htaccess file, which tells Google permanently that the old URL has moved and passes all the SEO value to the new one. Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file That single line is all you need. Here's how to add it: Option 1 — .htaccess directly (best): In your web host control panel (cPanel or Bluehost's file manager), find .htaccess in your WordPress root folder Open it — it will already have WordPress's own rewrite rules in it Paste the redirect line above the # BEGIN WordPress block Save It should look like this in the file: Redirect 301 /if-you-are-struggling-in-any-of-the-areas-below-click-on-the-link-to-read-further/ /areas-of-specialization/ # BEGIN WordPress <IfModule mod_rewrite.c> ... Option 2 — Redirection plugin (easier, no file editing): Install the free Redirection plugin by John Godley from Plugins → Add New. Go to Tools → Redirection, add the source URL and target URL, set type to 301, save. It writes the redirect without you touching any files. Then do these two things after the redirect is live: Change the WordPress page slug — go to the Areas of Specialization page in the editor, find the Permalink field, and change the slug from if-you-are-struggling-in-any-of-the-areas-below-click-on-the-link-to-read-further to areas-of-specialization. WordPress will then serve the page at the new URL and the redirect catches anyone hitting the old one. Update all internal links — every page we built links to the old URL in breadcrumbs and the "Areas of Specialization" links. Do a find-and-replace in the header and footer files as well. Technically the redirect will catch them, but direct links to the new URL are cleaner for SEO. Htaccess redirect TXT How do we remove this part - © 2026 Terence Hoyt, LCSW-R, PHD, MSW Powered by WordPress Theme: Gillian 11:26 AM That's Gillian's built-in footer. A one-line CSS rule in Additional CSS will kill it: css .site-footer { display: none !important; } Paste that at the bottom of Appearance → Customize → Additional CSS and save. The Gillian footer — the copyright line, "Powered by WordPress," and "Theme: Gillian" — will disappear completely, leaving only your custom footer from the WPCode inject. what do I put into the redirect tool to put https://hoyttherapy.com/areas-of-specialization/ as the real url instead of https://hoyttherapy.com/if-you-are-struggling-in-any-of-the-areas-below-click-on-the-link-to-read-further/ ? Can I do a search and replace on the website? 11:31 AM Yes — two separate steps, both straightforward. Step 1 — Change the actual page URL in WordPress Go to Pages in the WordPress admin, find the Areas of Specialization page, click Edit. Look at the Permalink just below the page title — it shows the current slug. Click it (or click "Edit" next to it) and change it to areas-of-specialization. Click Save/Update. WordPress now serves the page at the new URL. Step 2 — Set up the redirect for the old URL In the Redirection plugin go to Tools → Redirection → Add New. Source URL: /if-you-are-struggling-in-any-of-the-areas-below-click-on-the-link-to-read-further/ Target URL: /areas-of-specialization/ Type: 301 Click Add Redirect That's it. Anyone hitting the old URL — including Google — gets sent to the new one permanently. Step 3 — Search and replace all internal links (yes, do this) Install the free plugin Better Search Replace from Plugins → Add New. Then go to Tools → Better Search Replace: Search for: if-you-are-struggling-in-any-of-the-areas-below-click-on-the-link-to-read-further Replace with: areas-of-specialization Select all tables in the list Uncheck "Run as dry run?" to make it live Click Run This sweeps through your entire WordPress database — page content, menus, widgets, any metadata — and replaces every instance of the old slug with the new one. It will catch the links in all the page HTML you pasted, the navigation menus, and anything else referencing the old URL. Run a dry run first (leave the checkbox checked) to see how many instances it finds before committing. Searched the web Based on what I found, here's a breakdown of Terence Hoyt's direct competitors — private practice therapists and group practices in the Albany, NY area that overlap with his core specialties (addiction, relationship/couples counseling, gay/LGBTQ+ issues, codependency, existential/s pasted 11:58 AM Great research. Let me crawl the existing pages to stay perfectly on theme before building. Check existing specialty pages for voice and structure reference Check existing specialty pages for voice and structure reference Good — I have the full template pattern locked in. Now let me research the specific keyword opportunities before writing. Searched the web Searched the web Good — confirmed zero Albany therapists have a dedicated limerence page. Now I have everything I need. Building all five pages: Created 2 files Created 2 files Now the telehealth page — the highest-volume uncontested keyword: Created a file, read a file Created a file, read a file Three new pages. Here is what each targets and why, based on the competitive research: Limerence / Romantic Obsession (/romantic-obsession-limerence-therapy/) — The single clearest gap in the entire Albany market. Zero local therapists have a dedicated limerence page. The term is growing as people discover it online to describe their experience. Someone searching "limerence therapist New York" or "romantic obsession therapy Albany" is in acute distress and ready to book. The page includes the term "limerence" prominently throughout the copy so Google can index it clearly, explains Dorothy Tennov's definition, connects it to Terence's existing sex/pornography addiction specialty, and closes with a contact form. Full FAQPage and MedicalWebPage schema. Young Men's Issues (/therapy-for-young-men/) — Already appears as a checkbox category in Terence's own WPForms contact form but has no page. This is a hub that funnels into every other specialty — pornography addiction, substance use, relationship struggles, gay identity, existential meaning — framed around the specific pressures men in their 20s and 30s face. Keywords: "therapy for young men Albany NY," "men's therapist Albany," "therapist for men New York." Telehealth (/online-therapy-telehealth/) — The most overlooked gap. Terence is licensed in both NY and NJ and offers video sessions but this fact is buried in the fees page. A dedicated telehealth page captures "online therapist New York," "telehealth therapy New Jersey," "online sex addiction therapy NY," and similar searches — many of which have significant volume and no strong local competition. It also lists every specialty as a linked item, creating internal links that reinforce each specialty page's authority. For the existing pages that were requested — the sex addiction, ACOA, and existential pages already exist as rebuilt files from earlier in our session (wp-sex-addiction-page.html, wp-acoa-page.html, wp-existential-page.html). Each already has full schema, FAQ accordions, and SEO-optimized H1s. If you would like updated versions with the new slug (/areas-of-specialization/ instead of the old long URL in breadcrumbs) and any content additions, just say the word. New page slugs to create in WordPress: /romantic-obsession-limerence-therapy/ /therapy-for-young-men/ /online-therapy-telehealth/ All three are new pages — create them in WordPress Pages, set to Full Width template, paste HTML into Text tab. Wp limerence page Code · HTML Wp young men page Code · HTML Wp telehealth page Code · HTML Claude is AI and can make mistakes. Please double-check cited sources. Wp limerence page · HTML Copy <script type="application/ld+json"> { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "MedicalWebPage", "name": "Romantic Obsession and Limerence Therapy in Albany, NY", "description": "Terence Hoyt LCSW-R offers therapy for romantic obsession, limerence, and love addiction in Albany NY and via telehealth across New York and New Jersey. 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It goes beyond a typical crush or falling in love. The person experiencing limerence becomes preoccupied with the object of their feelings to the point where it interferes with daily life, work, and other relationships. It is characterized by obsessive thinking, intense mood swings based on perceived signals from the other person, and an overwhelming need for reciprocation." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "Is limerence the same as love addiction?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "They overlap significantly. Both involve compulsive patterns in romantic attachment that cause real suffering and impairment. Limerence is often used to describe the specific experience of obsessive longing for a particular person. Love addiction is a broader pattern of using romantic relationships to manage emotional pain, avoid intimacy, or meet needs that are not being met elsewhere. Many people experience both." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "Can therapy actually help with limerence?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "Yes. Therapy is one of the most effective approaches to limerence. The work involves understanding what emotional needs the limerent state is serving, identifying the underlying patterns that make someone vulnerable to this experience, and developing genuine capacity for reciprocal connection. This is not about suppressing feelings — it is about understanding them clearly enough that they lose their power to run your life." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "How do I know if what I am experiencing is limerence?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "Some indicators include: obsessive, intrusive thoughts about a specific person that you cannot turn off; intense mood swings that depend entirely on perceived signals from that person; inability to stop the pattern despite wanting to; staying preoccupied with someone who is unavailable, uninterested, or harmful to you; and the experience of idealization — seeing the other person as perfect or uniquely suited to you in ways that do not hold up under scrutiny." } }, { "@type": "Question", "name": "Do you offer telehealth therapy for limerence in New York and New Jersey?", "acceptedAnswer": { "@type": "Answer", "text": "Yes. I offer telehealth video sessions for clients across New York and New Jersey, in addition to in-person sessions at my Albany, NY office. 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It is more common than most people realize, and it can be worked with.</p> <div class="ht-spec-hero-meta"> <div class="ht-spec-meta-item">Limerence and Love Addiction</div> <div class="ht-spec-meta-item">Romantic Obsession</div> <div class="ht-spec-meta-item">Albany, NY and Telehealth</div> <div class="ht-spec-meta-item">Licensed in NY and NJ</div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="ht-sub-body"> <div class="ht-sub-main"> <div class="ht-sub-section"> <div class="ht-label">What I Observe</div> <h2>What romantic obsession actually feels like</h2> <div class="ht-rule"></div> <div class="ht-sub-callout">The experience of limerence — of being consumed by another person, unable to turn off the obsessive thinking, riding the emotional rollercoaster of their attention and withdrawal — is one of the most disorienting things a person can go through. It does not feel like a choice. That is because it is not one.</div> <p>Psychologist Dorothy Tennov introduced the term limerence in 1979 to describe a state that most people had experienced but had no precise language for: an involuntary, obsessive preoccupation with another person combined with an overwhelming need for their reciprocation. Unlike ordinary infatuation or falling in love, limerence takes over. It interferes with work, sleep, other relationships, and the basic ability to be present in your own life.</p> <p>The person caught in limerence is often acutely aware that something is wrong. They may have tried to stop. They may have recognized that the object of their obsession is unavailable, unsuitable, or even someone they know would not be good for them. The recognition does not help. That is one of the defining features of limerence: the compulsion persists despite insight.</p> <p>I have worked with many individuals struggling with these patterns — both limerence specifically and the broader pattern sometimes called romantic obsession or love addiction. What I have found is that underneath the obsession is almost always a story about unmet emotional needs, early experiences of inconsistent attachment, and a deep, often unexamined hunger to feel genuinely loved and chosen by another person.</p> </div> <div class="ht-sub-section"> <div class="ht-label">Recognizing the Pattern</div> <h2>Signs of limerence and romantic obsession</h2> <div class="ht-rule"></div> <p>Not every intense romantic feeling is limerence. The distinction lies in the compulsive quality, the loss of control, and the degree to which the preoccupation interferes with functioning. If several of the following resonate, it may be worth talking to someone who understands this area.</p> <div class="ht-sub-checklist"> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Intrusive, obsessive thoughts about a specific person that you cannot turn off</div></div> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Mood that swings entirely based on perceived signals from that person</div></div> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Checking your phone compulsively for messages or signs of attention</div></div> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Inability to stop despite clearly seeing the pattern is harmful</div></div> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Staying preoccupied with someone unavailable, uninterested, or wrong for you</div></div> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Intense idealization — seeing the other person as uniquely, perfectly suited to you</div></div> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Elaborate fantasies about a future together that may bear no relation to reality</div></div> <div class="ht-sub-check-item"><div class="ht-sub-check-dot"></div><div>Fearing abandonment and staying in relationships that are clearly harmful or one-sided</div></div> </div> </div> <div class="ht-sub-section"> <div class="ht-label">Understanding the Root</div> <h2>Where limerence comes from</h2> <div class="ht-rule"></div> <p>Limerence is not a character flaw or a sign of weakness. It is a pattern that develops for reasons — usually rooted in early experiences of inconsistent love, in growing up in environments where emotional availability was unpredictable, or in having a deep and unacknowledged need to feel truly chosen and valued by another person.</p> <p>My prior college teaching experience in philosophy, combined with years of clinical work, gives me a particular way of approaching this. I am interested in the full picture of what drives a person to a particular pattern — not just the surface behavior but the beliefs and emotional logic that sustain it. The limerent state almost always makes sense once you understand what it is trying to do. It is trying to solve a problem. The problem is real. The solution is not working.</p> <div class="ht-sub-approach-grid"> <div class="ht-sub-approach-card"> <div class="ht-sub-approach-icon">📷</div> <h3>Early Attachment Patterns</h3> <p>Limerence frequently develops in people whose early experiences of being loved were inconsistent — sometimes present, sometimes withdrawn. The brain learns to interpret uncertainty as intensity, and to chase the uncertain source of love compulsively.</p> </div> <div class="ht-sub-approach-card"> <div class="ht-sub-approach-icon">🔒</div> <h3>Unmet Emotional Needs</h3> <p>Beneath the obsession is usually a genuine and legitimate need — to be deeply known, to be chosen, to matter to someone. The limerent state offers a fantasy of having that need met. The work of therapy is to find more genuine ways to meet it.</p> </div> <div class="ht-sub-approach-card"> <div class="ht-sub-approach-icon">⚙</div> <h3>The Compulsive Quality</h3> <p>Limerence functions neurologically like a compulsion or an addiction. The dopamine reward loop of uncertain reciprocation keeps the pattern alive. Understanding this is not an excuse to continue — it is the beginning of finding leverage to change it.</p> </div> <div class="ht-sub-approach-card"> <div class="ht-sub-approach-icon">✦</div> <h3>The Philosophical Dimension</h3> <p>For many people, limerence touches questions about identity, meaning, and what they actually want from their lives. I bring both clinical experience and a genuine philosophical interest in these questions to the work. They deserve to be taken seriously.</p> </div> </div> </div> <div class="ht-sub-section"> <div class="ht-label">The Work</div> <h2>What therapy for romantic obsession looks like</h2> <div class="ht-rule"></div> <p>The goal of therapy for limerence is not to suppress or shame the feelings. The goal is to understand them clearly enough that they lose their compulsive power — and to develop a genuine capacity for the kind of reciprocal, grounded love that limerence is a distorted substitute for.</p> <p>That work typically involves getting honest about the full scope of the pattern and its impact on your life. It involves looking carefully at the emotional logic beneath the obsession — what it is trying to protect, what need it is trying to meet. It involves identifying the specific triggers and the specific beliefs that sustain the cycle. And it involves, patiently and without judgment, developing a different relationship to your own emotional needs — one that does not require the particular kind of drama that limerence provides.</p> <div class="ht-sub-acoa-box"> <h3>The connection to sex and pornography addiction</h3> <p>Romantic obsession and limerence frequently overlap with compulsive sexual behavior and pornography addiction. The same underlying emotional dynamics — the use of intensity and fantasy to manage anxiety or unmet needs — often drive both. I work with these areas together when they are present together. <a href="/sexpornography-and-romantic-obsession/">Learn more about sex and pornography addiction →</a></p> </div> </div> <div class="ht-sub-section"> <div class="ht-label">Frequently Asked Questions</div> <h2>Questions about limerence and romantic obsession therapy in Albany, NY</h2> <div class="ht-rule"></div> <div class="ht-faq"> <div class="ht-faq-item"> <div class="ht-faq-question" onclick="htFaqToggle(this)"> <div class="ht-faq-q-text">What is limerence?</div> <div class="ht-faq-icon">+</div> </div> <div class="ht-faq-answer"> <p>Limerence is a term coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov to describe a state of intense, involuntary romantic obsession. It goes beyond a typical crush. The person experiencing limerence becomes preoccupied with the object of their feelings to the point where it interferes with daily life, work, and other relationships — characterized by obsessive thinking, mood swings based on perceived signals, and an overwhelming need for reciprocation.</p> </div> </div> <div class="ht-faq-item"> <div class="ht-faq-question" onclick="htFaqToggle(this)"> <div class="ht-faq-q-text">Is limerence the same as love addiction?</div> <div class="ht-faq-icon">+</div> </div> <div class="ht-faq-answer"> <p>They overlap significantly. Limerence often describes the specific experience of obsessive longing for a particular person. Love addiction is a broader pattern of using romantic relationships to manage emotional pain or meet needs that are not being met elsewhere. Many people experience both.</p> </div> </div> <div class="ht-faq-item"> <div class="ht-faq-question" onclick="htFaqToggle(this)"> <div class="ht-faq-q-text">Can therapy actually help with limerence?</div> <div class="ht-faq-icon">+</div> </div> <div class="ht-faq-answer"> <p>Yes. Therapy is one of the most effective approaches to limerence. The work involves understanding what emotional needs the limerent state is serving, identifying the underlying patterns that make someone vulnerable to this experience, and developing genuine capacity for reciprocal connection. 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